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Writer's pictureLisa Spivey

Cultivating Courageous Faith in Friendship

Friendship is one of life's most rewarding experiences, but it can also be challenging. To navigate the complexities of relationships, we need something deeper- courageous faith. This kind of faith not only strengthens our bonds but also helps us face conflicts and uncertainties with resilience. Here are some ways to cultivate courageous faith in your friendships.


  1. Embrace Vulnerability

    Courageous faith begins with vulnerability. It takes courage to share your true self with friends. When you open up about your struggles, dreams,, and fears, you create a space for deeper connection as Christ leads you. It also allows you to invite you friend to do the same in a safe spot. This mutual sharing fosters trust, understanding and opens up doors for you to pray for and with each other.

    TIP-START SMALL- Begin by opening up about something personal, but manageable. As your comfort level grows, you can share more significant aspects of your life.

  2. Show Up in Tough Times

    True friendship can be tested during challenging times. Being there for your friends during crisis requires courageous faith. It means prioritizing their needs and offering support, even when it's inconvenient or uncomfortable.

    TIP-BE PRESENT- Sometimes, just being physically or emotionally present is enough. Listen and offer support through a comforting word or helping hand.

  3. Encourage Growth

    Courageous faith involves believing in your friends and encouraging them. Celebrate their successes and be there for them during challenging times.

    TIP-CHECK IN REGULARLY- Regularly check in on your friends' aspirations and offer encouragement. A simple message or a thoughtful gesture can reinforce your belief in them.

  4. Practice Forgiveness

    No friendship is without bumps. Cultivating courageous faith means being willing to forgive and move forward. Holding onto grudges can create barriers. Instead, ask the Lord to help you work towards resolution and to keep your heart soft.

    TIP-REFLECT BEFORE REACTING- When conflict arises, take a moment to reflect on the situation before responding. This pause can help you approach forgiveness with a clearer mind.

  5. Keep the Faith

    Sometimes, friendships go through phases where one or both parties feel distant. During these times, courageous faith means seeking the Holy Spirit and remind yourself of Philippians 4:8-10, to focus on the things that are true in Christ.

    TIP-REACH OUT- Don't hesitate to initiate contact, even if it's been a while. Satan will want to isolate you and put all kinds of doubts in your mind. Don't you believe it. Ask the Holy Spirit to lead and guide you, as well as, give you the courage to connect again.


Courageous faith in friendship is about building a strong foundation that is built on Christ. By embracing vulnerability, communicating openly, supporting each other, practicing forgiveness, you can cultivate deeper, more meaningful friendships. Remember, every courageous step you take in your relationships not only strengthens your friendships, but your relationship with Christ as you embrace the journey, and let your friendships flourish.

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